A popular saying from an unknown source goes something like this: age doesn’t matter, but age gracefully. Could it be related to love why aging can be looking good or bad? As two persons grow together with so much love in them, loving seems a workaround. The very reason could then be the one inevitable thing in the world which is change. Change in terms of the renewal of faith in God, intensity of love between two lovers, plus setting of priorities should all be accounted for.
First off, God as the center of a relationship is the topmost factor to consider why lovers stay intact. The belief that God makes everything possible is the unending desire to work things out each day for a couple. Living in the same roof could be happy times because partners look forward for all the things they can do together as part of improving their union. Sharing the household chores such as cooking, laundry, cleaning different areas of the house, nurturing babies, and feeding dogs are the most common activities in the house that makes a tag team for a couple.
Moreover, the spice in every couple’s life is making love which serves as a special bond. On the other hand, sad part could be those misfortunes and misunderstandings. If one of the couple had a not-so-good day like a demanding task from work because of a job out in the field that’s done from a distance between east coast to west coast. In addition, petty things which happened like refusal to give the husband a massage due to the wife’s very tiring day which made her travel almost half of his day to accomplish her job.
All these roller coaster activities of daily living are always a work in progress because every day is a brand new day. Another new experience to thrive either uplifting or depressing result to mood swings that impacts the affection for love however, because of the promise of love in front God everything seems to pass because sticking by together renews these vows everyday as a learning experience. Second part to mention, is the fire burning between two lovers that makes a unique and ultimate relationship.
The thought of waking up each day to see one’s partner lying near is a priceless gift. It gives an assurance that starting a jam packed day is easy because love will conquer all. Also, going home is the most exciting part because both lovers are eager to exchange stories of how their day went or how interacting with others is a big deal for that specific day. Another, the constant small things like kissing, saying I love you or I miss you, and reminders to eat on time are the sweetest to replenish each one’s energy.
Mostly, never forget to start or end the day with making love like it is the last. Besides, it’s one way to keep both couples healthy. Lastly, the adjustment of priorities exists since relationship from a shallow to a deeper understanding of the relationship occurs. Starting from the getting to know stage wherein the focus is to be labeled in a relationship going to a permanent title which is married because settling down is sinking in. Putting the bond to a matured level, is the highest form of relationship because lovers should be working together to bind their marriage forever.
So then, adjustments of career happens like the wife is challenged to be a housewife or both a housewife and a career woman. Or the husband will choose to work in his country, venture on a business, or work overseas to earn more and provide the best life for the family. For the best part, marriage is like a job or a business. It should be monitored each day to see if the parameters of longevity of love are met. Then, one can say I am beautiful because I am very inspired and motivated by my husband; and vice versa.
