Have you ever wished for something so much that you could imagine yourself achieving that dream and being successful? but you gave in despair Have you ever had that one aim that you believed that you could achieve it, but then you suffered with great pain that you had to deal with, when you realised that your dream had become nothing more than a failure? Have you ever woken up early in the morning and made lists of plans that you thought that would be achieving but ended up not completing?
Today I will get out of this boring everyday bed lifestyle and for beginners go hit the gym, start eating the right diet, do all my courseworks and do everything that I have to do, because I cant take it anymore. I want to be someone successful in life and then after a hard day in school realising that you didnt achieve even one goal and you wasted the whole day making more plans that makes you more of a failure? I can guess that for many people the answer to these questions is yes, because everyone has passed through these disappointing moments, but the question that never goes away is, why do most of our dreams and plans become failures?
I would assume that the biggest reason why this happens is because people like finding stupid excuses and they use the rule of “I will do it tomorrow” more than they should. Excuses are just reasons that weak people find to fail without trying. People need to understand that if you wish for something you need to fight for it. You need to see your objective as gold and your barriers as your enemies, like in a movie, you just have to be ready to confront all your enemies fearlessly, be prepared to pass through all the disappointments and pains that life put you into and the most important is to be strong and faithful and never give up.
I came to England in 2013, I started school in year 9, and because I didn’t know how to speak English at all, I thought that I would never be capable of being in the same level as somebody in the same year as me. I was so frustrated, I used to go home and cry because I used to think that I would never be similar to the students from my school. I didnt want to try and communicate with anybody because I was too scared of making mistakes, and I thought that my dream of living in England and speaking another language would just be another goal that I wouldn’t be able to achieve.
Everyone used to say You have to try otherwise you will never learn it or It takes time, one day you will get used to it, but I didn’t want to listen, and I thought that another failure was coming in to my life. But one day I had to wake up and start fighting for my dreams to become true. It was hard, but I then realised that I could do it and nothing is impossible for those who believe in themselves. What does ‘success’ actually mean? Well most people would say Success is the accomplishment of an aim or purpose or Success means victory. But is that the right answer for the meaning of success?
Well, I think that there is not a wrong or a right answer for this question. In my opinion success is what you believe it is. One saying I found suggested that “Excuses are the tools of incompetence, used to build monuments of nothingness”. I understand that its hard to achieve your goals, but if you don’t try, you will always be another dreamer. And is that what you want? If you want to be successful in life, if you want to be proud of yourself, then you have to start working hard now; it is never too late to follow your dreams and be who you always wished to be.
