Child Abuse: A Topic to Take Lightly?
In recent years, child abuse has become, for the first time, an issue worthy of much
attention. Child abuse happens everywhere; it is deeply embedded and practiced in many
various cultures and geographical locations. Everyone has his or her own opinion on the
significance of child abuse. To some, abuse merely is a topic that people have become
obsessed with. Many people believe that abuse is only an extreme word for good
These people are blind to the seriousness of child abuse. There are several very
negative effects that spur from child abuse. These effects are anything but healthy in
reference to the development of a child abused in any way.
Many parents, in every culture, use child abuse as a method of conditioning their
children to behave well. They use severe negative reinforcement too punish their children.
These parents only see the immediate effects of child abuse.
Naturally, if a child is beaten
for doing something wrong, they will learn not to do it again. However, abused children
tend to develop many problems later in life.
In some cases, abused children will avoid growing close to people. They feel more
comfortable trying to hide all of their pain and suffering. An approach like this to building
relationships can lead to a lack of the true sense of intimacy and trust. A child will isolate
themselves from others and experience severe loneliness.
Abused children are more likely
to bully other children around, isolating themselves from their peers (Judith 117). They
sometimes fall into the pattern of befriending people who will only betray and cause them
Abuse to a child can be a source of very painful experiences. Children often handle
these experiences in the wrong way. Sometimes, these children try to ignore these painful
feelings, which makes it difficult to learn how to cope with them. This behavior may lead
to confusion and high stress. Children often become lost in the wavering maze of feeling
little or no emotion, then switching to being overwhelmed with emotion and not knowing
how to handle their feelings.
These children may become psychologically unhealthy due to
their emotionally instability (www.childabuse.com).
Someone that was abused as a child is more likely to become an abusive parent
than someone who was not (Judith 221). In this way, abuse can carry on from generation
from generation. These families have unhealthy relationships.
Family members frequently
lack the love, caring, and friendship that everyone needs. Being neglected of these
important feelings can cause frustration; this can cause a child to feel secluded, depressed,
or cause them to be violent. It is even hard on me at the age of 18 being away from my
family. Sometimes I don’t have anyone to talk to about personal feelings or anyone to
show me true love and compassion. My friends have become more close to me than I ever
thought they would. Tender love and care are things that everyone needs to experience.
Abuses is a problem that more people face than most think. If more people learned
about the effects of abuse, the general development of our children would be much better.
Some people, however, just don’t care to learn about abuse or problems it may cause.
Child abuse is a problem that is so prevalent, it is difficult to prevent. Hopefully, in the
future, a much higher percentage of our society will better understand the devastation that
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